Is this mom does to me abuse?

  • I'm 13, mom makes me wear a bodysuit, that undergarment that covers all your torso, back and and breasts and clips at your crotch. I hate, it's uncomfortable, makes me sweat, none of my friends wears that thing. But mom says it's for my best, it's good for my body and also for modesty. She says every mom should be like her, care about her daughters and preserve moral values. She doesnt back off, once I tried to rebel but got punished, grounded, wearing that thing, of course, and had to give in. I know mom is sure its for my best she's caring and loving, but those body suits really suck. One of them, that I wear twice a week, even covers even part of my tighs. I'd like to know if this can be considered child abuse. I won' report my mom, even if I have to be in that thing, I love her. But how can she get out of those bodysuits? I don't think she'll back off. Should I rebel, disobey, take it off when she's not at home?
    By the way, iwe are Catholic but its not for religion reasons. I'm thin, I swim,, it's just a mom's thing. She wears one too, my grandma made her wear one when she was a teen. She didn't like but today she thinks her mom was right. I have to wear one all day long, except to sleep and take a shower.
    A bodysuit is a thing like this in thhis Herroom site, a online underwear store where mom usualy buys undewear.

    http://www.herroom.com/Miraclesuit-2714-...


  • no its not child abuse but I do think that its silly of her to make u wear this thing. Even if she thinks her mom was right, at the time she hated it so she should think about how she felt when she had one on.I think ur mom and grandma needs some counseling.


  • I don't get it. Does your mother look at this thing as a form of birth control or something? Yeah, I would say that it's abuse and I'm sorry that she makes you wear the stupid thing.


  • Oh, honey, I feel so bad for you! How can she make you wear one of those all day? Those are for women who want to wear a slim dress and need to cover up bulges or not have unsightly panty lines! Not for slim 13 yr old girls! It's cruel and unusual behavior on your moms part, ;and you bet your a-- that you should rebel! If that were me, I would be cutting them all up and throwing them in the trash! Modesty be damned! You sound like a great kid and don't deserve to have your mom force you to wear them. Rebel! Tell her NO MORE!! Tell ShortMar to stick it! Or go wear one herself!


  • Nope not abuse, as long as you are a minor you have to do and wear as your mom says.


  • I think that it is ridiculous to make you wear the bodysuit. Fat older women wear those undergarments to firm things up but you are young and slender with nothing to sag or bulge. Do you have an aunt, school teacher, another mother from your church or an older sister who could help you talk to your mother? Tell someone what she is making you wear and ask them to talk to your mother for you, or with you. I can't imagine why on earth you couldn't wear regular panties and a bra and be completely modest and much more comfortable. That undergarment is NOT good for your body. It won't hurt you and it is not abuse but I don't blame you a bit for not wanting to wear it. I'm not telling you to disobey your mother but I would refuse to wear it even if I got in trouble with my mother.


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