The guy broke up with me because of his depression. He says he "loves me as a friend". We were talking the other day about if either of us meet someone else (I'm not ready to, he brought it up and I was upset). Anyway yesterday I acted really cavalier. He said "You've changed your tune" and I said "Well, I've realised there's no point stressing about something I can't change. I need affection and passion and most importantly, I want to love someone who can love me back" he said "I love you, but in a different way". I think he was kind of shocked that I had totally changed my outlook. I do love him, but I don't want to appear like some lovestruck little girl who is clinging to him - so am I taking the right attitude and behaving the right way?
It isn't necessarily the wrong way to act or a bad way to act either. But I think you should not be so focused on acting more relaxed and cool about it all and actually mean it. Because by acting a certain way does not erase the fact that you still really do love and care about this guy. I think its just best that you slowly end contact with the guy so you can well and truly move on from him. Because to act all cool and casual when you aren't and then to see him dating someone that isn't you might only cause some drama in the possible friendship you might wish to have with him. So better thing to do is end the acting and find some semblance of letting go of your love feelings for him and then work on rebuilding just a platonic friendship so you can actually be cool about him seeing other people without it hurting you.
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