I just started going out with him... *please help*?

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  • Okay, sit down cause I have something to say, lol. Me and this guy used to be best friends for like 2 school years. Then, we just like didn't talk. Four nights ago my friend came over (Different friend, girl) and we hung out for a while. Then, her sister, her friend, and the guy came over. I was like, what the hell are you doing here, and he was kind of embarassed to come over cause we kind of hated each other. After like fifteen minutes they left, and me and my friend were like, cr*p, we're bored. So, we called him and repeatedly bugged him to come over. (he's fun, what can I say?) we bugged him almost all night, and he stillll never came. Then, the next day, he came over and brought his gay little friend. I was like, OMG how did you get here? Then just a lot happened that night cause we greeted awkwardly (lol) then his friend was like, I LOVE JACKA*S and I had the game so they played it. Then after a while we kept doing fun stuffs like that and when they had 30 more minutes to stay, they asked us out. His friend asked her, my old friend asked me. We ran outsied, talked, and said yesh. It was very hard and stuff cause her dad is racist blah blah but then we are going out. The next day we went to a movie, (No kissin) went swimming, came home, and drama accured. When that was over, we started just getting close to each other and putting heads on shoulders. Then, when they had to leave they went to her house, and he hugged me. (eww, gross lol) Now, a long time ago when we were friends I had a dream we made out or something and when I woke up I felt so weird, and I was really glad it didn't happen. I had that same weird feeling today, but I wasn't like, OMG I'm glad that wasn't real cause nothing like kising happened... and last night I kept thinking she was hugging on mine or something, idk. WHY IS THIS FEELING? Sadness, madness, weirdness and shakiness lol. I tried to call and ask if they left at 11 like they were supposed to or did her mom let them stay the night? idk pls help!!


  • i can tell your not in highskool
    you act way to childish...grow up!!!!
    and p.s it was just a hug!! wow how are you grossed out by that
    if you dont like him dont go out with him!


  • Oh, Amanda, my friend's boyfriend that just asked her out is African-American and her dad is a huge racist. D=

    She cried caus of it... Report Abuse


  • High school is too young

    below that and you guys are still just pups. Take it slowly.


  • Girl, you have your whole life ahead of you.
    Don't get caught up on one incident with one guy.


  • Sweetheart it's a crush, when you have a crush on someone you feel really giddy and like your gunna be sick when he touches you. thats the nerves talking he huged you thats a big thing I guess this is your first BF your scared and excited how is his dad racisit?
    You'll be fine if you like him see him, if you don't like him don't see him no one on the internet can tell you how you feel. Talk to your mum or some family member they know yo better


  • WTF? This makes no sense to me at all. Why are u even dating this guy? u dont like him


  • umm ya i u want answers dont make things too long, thats way to much to read


  • I think found another chick.Ur out of his life.Srry to say but we all know it.


  • soo i didnt even read the story, i just saw the age range.
    dont even bother with this stuff right now!
    girl, i guarentee when you are graduating highschool (which may seem in forever but it flysss by) you will not even remember homeboys name.
    i swear


  • chill the fu*k out little girl.


  • i think you answered your own question your far too young to be even thinking about this don't worry about it let it go !


  • I think you are not ready to date yet. You maybe feel like closed up and not allowed to roam the free world. Maybe you feel like you rushed into this. And if your thinking about hugging its only natural, maybe you want to take it a bit further..







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